Just Hang In there, It's worth It.
When I was a kid, all I could ever think was to run around, have fun, ignore my parents and do what I loved doing. There were no constraints and barriers that could ever stop me from doing what I loved doing. I used to make friends easily where ever I go, no matter how new the people around me were, I used to walk around here and there while the class was going on. In fact, all my class teachers used to call me a "nomad”. During the parent’s teacher meeting, all my teachers had one common thing to say about me,
"your son keeps roaming around the class and he talks a lot."
Those days were great, I made a lot of memories back then. As the days went by I changed to something I was not before. All of a sudden , I was not able to make friends, I felt lot of stress, I was definitely not happy like before. My friends started leaving me, I felt very lonely after a point. The only thing I did was blame my parents for not letting me do anything other than studying. I had to change and sacrifice everything I loved doing, to make my parents feel happy. And that was a horrible mistake I made back there, I should have let my parents know that
"I don't feel happy doing what I’m doing, I’m sacrificing myself so that you can be happy"
It would have changed everything. Maybe I would have my friends back, maybe I could have managed studies and also did I loved doing. But I will never know, because I never tried.
As time passed I realized, we make mistakes as humans. It is a part of our lives.
Life is not about thinking about all the mistakes you made, but how you go about after making those mistakes. It takes a lot of courage to move on, and believe me as long you don't let go of your mistakes you'll only end up making lot more mistakes.
The mistakes that you make should be considered as a part of your life. These mistakes give you a whole different view of life. It'll help you realize your true strength.
"Thinking today about mistakes you did yesterday is not going to change your tomorrow"
Mistakes you make can have a lot of effects. Sometimes, you won’t be able to handle it, it becomes a pressure on top of pressure, at that time just tell yourself ,
“Hang in there . The better is just about to come"
If you want to get to the other side of the river, you must cross the river first. To cross the river you need the boat of "Passion" and the oar of "Belief". Use the oar to row your boat and find your "Life" on the other side. While you cross the river you'll feel some disturbances, it is up to you pause and focus on clearing the disturbances first or continue in your way ignoring them.
For some people the passion might be to make money, being a celeb, to making a impact in the world, It could be anything. But you should discover your passion yourself. Your passion lies deep inside you, all you must do is dig deep inside and find it. " Convincing " yourself, that this is my passion is a lot different from " finding " your real passion.
Nothing you do is wrong in the world, if your heart says it's right.
Mistakes are just a part of life, it is not life Itself!
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